Manage your relationship....

Being in love and start a relationship is easy but managing it is something else..

Actually everywoman is beautifull and has a right man for her but most us tend to think that because of our beauty,and whatever will keep a man.
Foolish pride has kept many of us in tears because we thought we were the only ladies on earth and failed to manage our relationships..
I read so many spiritual and social books whereas women who experience divorce or breakups some of them failed manage or handle their relationahips or marriage by leaving aside some small issues and have costed them.
Also my working experience at Tanga city where women are so good in keeping their men taught some great issues that I will share today...
Also the book of Esther in the bible will be our point of focus and help us..

             lets start now...
             The moment that man followed you it means you moved because a real man knows a real woman once he sees her..it means of all the women in the world you are the one..So why do you treat him like alittle kid.....harsh tones when you talk...and so many issues that you know.
If you read bible Esther was agirl who took a place of queen Vashti who disobeyed her husband infront of visitors when she was called..and that angered the king who didnt count the years or hours their marriage had,he didnt even consider how many luxurious investment they had together..she left the palace with shame..
Lady no matter beautiful and smart we can be our responsibility is to be humble to our future husbands ,if now you are not married and you behave like that..change your character before you cry like a mad woman..
Learn and invest your time with GOD will give you wisdom how to stay with that man because HE is the creator because I know there moments things are tough and you feel so fededup but it is not toufh when God is behind you.
Tanga women are advantaged because since childhood are taught how to take care of aman..but we can learn by watching how we talk,dress and where and with who do we share our love issues.
          read these Quotes
   ........To catch a husband is an art..
            To hold him is a job well done...

*****Don't let foolish pride be the reason***
          You lose a great person and the potential of agreat relationship..

Ladies my hope is you will manage your relationship so as you avoid the tears that your bird flew to other nests..

Love with heart and brain..
empty words without prayers and well manners are helpless..