I believe prior falling in love someone has a lot in life that with her/him i will make a good husband/ wife..but after getting hurt all expectations melt..It should not end that way..Some will say all men/women are the same because of the terrible pain..Can't love again..and so much negativity..
From searching journals,reading several books discovered that Challenges of life be it social,economic or anyhow can produce very bad beings unless during challenge a person STOOD in a POSITIVE ANGLE...
That:-
#This is not the end of life...
#Was better with life even before meeting him or her..
#Had success, and yet I got so much to do..I have to be someone's SWEETHEART.. i too to be a great mumy or dady so this fate is not to stop me at being the best..
#its now a time to focus on my self..give a total love so as can love again..its a time also to learn from the pain if I contributed.. so as it doesn't repeat..
Wounds of heart are bard because if they don't heal..You will never enjoy your new love life..you will be cruel,rude,bitter but once you have enough time to heal ...all things will work normal..
One quote said..'our brains normally functions well..they start troubling once we fall in love'......its kinda funnie but we all know the truth...
Today's message was for us find time to let our wounds heal...
The wounds needs air..
they need care..
They need to be nurtured so as they heal properly..
But if you hid it will bring problems in future..
Find someone you trust..
pour all that is in your heart which hurted or harmed you in a way..Exposing them is also Healing..Because once you admit you're hurt..you can easily be helped..
Don't give up to love again due to pain..let that wound heal..so as you succeed in your dreams and yet be that amazing dad/mum...
Yours in love...
Natalie...
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