Tuesday, September 2, 2014

Motherhood..!

HOW WOMEN CAN RAISE CHILDREN despite science &technology effects


We live in a world where things are not as how they were in past centuries, were parents sat down with their children and tell them how to behave,there no more story telling, because children have access to tablets,video games and some get little teachings from their fellows hence the raising of children have faced challenges. Children hear a lot of negative things and watch on media,or even due to high expenses of life...parents are too busy to stay with children as are far searching for the daily bread..
Socially,it's a mother or we women who spend so much time with the children and we are the ones who transmit values,knowledge and norms to them that's why when a child misbehaves people asks "who raised this child?"or "who is his/her mum..This shows that as women its our responsibility to make sure the child is raised well with a joined hand from a father..
we can do the following:-

√COMMUNICATE-there must be an exchange of information from you to the child and from the child to you. It gives a child confidence because you provide the chance to express so much that you don't  know and through it you upgrade his/her self-esteem. Also communication allows you to know so much hence if there bad influence near your child or any issue to be solved.

√Don't preach be a role model-It will be so hard when what you tell your child is not what you do. Eg:Maryrose don't verbally abuse your friends or anyone. But when you mother come home you call your house helper bad names like "You cow come here did you do what I told you?"That will never change habits of children or model them.

√Give them your time-Children need affection and an active ear. Your presence means a lot. Some parents have made their children sexually abused or pornography addicts because are too busy searching for daily bread or have given house boys or girls their roles. Hence children are helpless.

To conclude, children raising in this era of science &technology needs parents who will devote themselves and living a side how they grew up but dealing with present changes..accepting the fact that were not on old ages but modern.
             

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