one day I was in a talk with some christian ladies and we were talking on relationship issues,and we came across a story of a girl who had a boy ready to marry her and they already started processes, but at church there were a lady Z who loved the boy but had secret prayers at night and day so as these people breakup and her get a man,so she prayed that a boy hate and feel so bad when he sees his future wife .it happened that the broke up thing succeeded but the girl left couldn't believe and she searched for a matured christian woman for a hand in prayers to know the root cause for breakup and GOD showed the woman in a vision that lady Z prayed about this and that and now they were to pray for deliverance of the boy so as he come to the right destiny.
#a lesson here is most of WE ladies tend to cry a lot when we search for people to marry us and once we find them we straighten our legs and fold arms as if we are already married#
=>There things to be done after you've accepted a man
√be PRAYERFUL!This is the greatest weapon as a lady,a future wife who has a lot of responsibility ahead,prayer for protections of the two of you,your dreams,plans,family because now days Satan knows if he disturbs relationships no generation of GOD fearing people will be prepared,So invest in prayers and because God is fair when you don't pray to shield your territory then Satan will use his plans and destroy your destined relationship.
√be SELECTIVE with your friends,not everyone will be happy with what you have hence its the wisdom of God highly needed in WHO to be sharing your rshp issues with,if you read Joshua 5:13b Joshua met a man and asked if he was on their side or from enemies as they were in a war so assurance was needed .You also need to be keen to whom you share your issues.
√draw some BOUNDARIES,your now in a relationship we expect you to be moderate especially in relating with others men avoid sharing your emotions with someone your not tied to,sexting(these are sexual SMS)charting. Have respect for your future hubby and those outsider should see a boundary that now Mimi is in a relationship.
√find trusted and SPIRITUAL WOMEN,who will help you grow up in the Lord and teach something to handle your affair. Too bad that we are living in a technological moments were TV teaches us badly and in a western nature that if your marriage fails seek for divorce but to have a spiritual mum will help you a lot .All fears the world have you wont experience but always be a help to others.
√its your time be SMART and LEARN HOME ACTIVITIES!!!,a lady must wear decently,smell good and treat herself well,I had a chance to work at Tanga for 4 months and learnt so much from these women,were so smart,in appearance,when they are cooking you will know a lady is in the house. So you must know you are on your way to marriage mwanamke kujipenda na pia mwanamke kujituma sio unaamka kitanda unatandika after work or lecture,unanuka jasho wee,kufanya kazi hadi ujisikie.Tumia muda wako kujiweka vizuri usivyojua uliza ili usiende na woga huko...
#being a lady is a blessing!be proud of yourself and a man God has given you as others are asking for that miracle and its years no man is even pushing them at the road so who are you????not to be thankful and handle your relationship with a grateful heart...
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